Gentowa

If you like one child more than another,it can not happen that child obtain privileged position in family.Also other children are Yours,therefore they also merit the same style of attendance and the same standard of love.

-Adolescent compares himself with adults,he feels his minus-valuable,therefore he expresses effort how to equal to adults and in this way they supply their shortcomings.

-He wants to impose his surroundings as adults,therefore he imitates to adults at everything and that not only in narrow way but also in gap-so,how he sees it round himself.

-He likes interfere into the discussion of adults and he speaks one-side bold statements and immature inferences.

-He teaches and carriages younger siblings with favor.

-He bears hard when he has to ask to parents if he can go to the cinema or on walk.

-He reacts excessively and incommensurate on punishment which evokes the conflict.

-He is cheeky there through he sometimes defends and sometimes also attacks.

-If adolescent has in front of eyes good specimens,nice examples in behavior,practiced and in sham,he vindicates good qualities,he creates well intents and attitudes to work,to people and with his upbringing there are not any troubles.

-Adolescents living sundry crises and they have to align with it with help of adults.

-Success can give rise to maximation, bad success to realization of own deficiency and diffidence to his abilities.

-If adolescent presumes that somebody do an injustice to him,he answers by bellicosity and fighting posture.

The most of conflicts among adolescents and their environs rise when they do not respect them,underestimate them or to flout them and spheric him seriously.In the time of adolescence usually is time to decide about future of adolescents and about his coming job.At this stage he still has not well-marked interests,settled imaginings,there through he will be,there is also missing social know-hows,whole personality is changed therefore decision is difficult.Therefore adolescent needs help pf parents and others attempt people that he could find right decision.

It is possible to say that the period of puberty is lived by almost each children without any complications,when parents and educators form convenient environs in which adolescents will be realize themselves,they will have ability to achieve,where they can see concord what their parents and educators resound and what they apply from them,and also the evidence that they hold this and they live and behave according this.If parents remark pubertal changes which their child supersede in good time and they reasonably change their attendance whit him,they do not afraid of any problems,it is liable that child overcomes puberty without troubles and complications

Manipulation with the adolescent is not easy. Patience is very necessary in this time. It is very necessary from the parential site also their self-control, balance and clementy is very important.

-Boys and girls starve for,that adults respect and treat them as equivalent.They need the environment that is rich of love,instead of the injuctions and hard requires there should be kidness and friendly represent.Parents receive the authority by personal example and suitable and sincere behaviour:

Each positive new favour the parents or the educators should take note,each stimulus or idea of adolescents is necessary to register and to solve and to motivate.And after all,this,what is negative it is already advisable in embryo paralyse.Teachers should know that adolescents,at this time,underestimate specific filling of everyday offices and they yearn after the heroical or remarkable actions.Never the abuse or the derision do not run off so destructive and it does not make so many claims on psychic.

We can help to adolescents children to trace the destination which is suitable their abilities and possibilities,we motivate their actions,that they reach this destination,that their will confirms accordingly to the size of the destination.At the same time we take care that child knows whatis waiting for him in the future,what refill will has his profession.We wil not do enough for yours children,if we will not cultivate the desire always go to next and above,in them,if we will non-stationary certitude that money which are important are not the uppermost value.

Very good is when the parents think that their children are peer friens. It is very important and good thing what they can do. Very important thinf is the conversation between parents and children about things what the children should do or what important things they do not do. You can abolish the friendship to the children when you will try to lightly dictate, or also when you will try to order. Very bad think is also the authoritative direct because of this the parents can abolish the friendship of their children. For some parents is easier to talk with their adolescent children straight about the questions of sex or is easier for some parents have the friendship with their children. The half-way closeness of interests of mother and daughter or the father and son is very important. The parents frequently think that they are the bigger friends that in the fact are. Some parents think and speak that they can speak with their children about everything. When the conversation between the parents and their children goes to the secrets or details the parents can lost the sincerity of children and suddenly is after conversation. Never at the conversation with children or in other situations you do not invoke to parental authority.Just only one incident,when you can say:”Do not talk with me like that!”,is just then,if children are impolite or if you must take short them because of their vulgariy.You permit every time to adolescents ,that they could opine their own opinions,which they think about and you realize,that on application your own opinios and requests you need another arguments as slap.You never invoke children,let them to tell whatever!If they say true,you should approve it,if they mislead,you prove it them and introduce them on the right standard,but in such way,so as you do not to insult their self-satisfaction or myself-feel.About squabbles with children there sometimes originate also more seriousl disagreements,but you never dissallow that it spread more seriously.You never dislike viciousness at children but neither at yourself.You do not insult!You never chastise in warm blood,you always keep your resolution ripe for a while. If you punish the child for a thing,then you be consistent if another child had done the same.

The second the most important period of adolescence is the period of puberty. This period supersede the both of sexes: boys and girls.

- The period of girl’s puberty begins at the age of 11-13 years and the period of boy’s buberty begins at the age of 14-16 years.

- Boys became the men after ending of pubertal development, girls became women and both of them are able of repetition. These changes are connect with certain changes in behaviour, in practis and sharm of individuals which outdoing puberty.

-Some time certain mentally childishness may still manifest which is in contradiction with physical forwardness, however do not keep this up.

The bankrupt´s estate of puberty is maturing of hormonal system which is controled by hypophysis (cerebral underslung). It is going mainly about sex up gland, cutwater gland and up-kidney.

-Girls begin puberty when the first menstruation is appearanced, boys at the stage of spermatogenesis.

The period of puberty is marketly manifested at adolescent young people in the spiritual and sensual areas.

-It is the time of the quickest and the stormiest changes.

-Spurt growth claims rasing food-intake and more sleep.

-Adolescent manifest himself by drowe unwieldiness and large burdensomeness.

-At this time the adolescents temporary ward themselves off from outside world,they turn their remark to own emotional experiences and to their internal world,they centre themselves at each other and to their personne.

-Upgrow aspiration for separatness and for labour at self-realization,also self-assurance is rising but there are missing know-hows and abilities how to objectively and without fear of favour evaluate matter and situations.

-Criticalness of young people upgrow at the time of puberty.They want to choose new authority alone,which could retrieve actual authority of adults mainly the authority of their parents.

-Adolescents at the time of puberty meditate at themselves,about their chances,about perspectives into the future,about their conflicts and about their built in the company.

-They are looking for new attributes in the company,in themselves,they try to more perfectly know themselfs and their place in family,at school and at their environment.

-They desire for adventures and heroical actions,they like reading detective story and crime stories.

-From the aspiration after heroism,adolescents are able to make criminal action.

-Some adolescents at this stage manifest adolescence by jactation,extravagant spending,booking or doing something that would pick them up in eyes of their friends.

-Emotional living is deepened but in it manifests specific unsteadiness and moodiness.

-Emotional tenor of adolescents lead to manifestation of artistic creativity,they write poems,diaries,they dream about beautiful future in the world of their ideas.

-At this stage they enclose tenderest friendship “deadly struggle”.