Changes of adolescents
-At puberty adolescents are very critical towards adults,each action of adult they evaluate morally and criticize,they are severe to other but they are indulgently towards themselve.
- The children want to get out from the influence of their parents because the children desire for separateness. They expressed it by resistance and revolt, also by negative way and asocia talk.
- All temperamentally lines are expressed more expressive and more distinctly at puberty. But those temperamentally lines are more negative. That is why in this time between parents and children are more conflics.
- Adolescents yearn, that the adults handling with them as with adults. When the parents do not do it the conflicts start. Adolescent thinks that nobody understand him and also he think that the parents and other people do not understand him. The adolescent yearn about something new or remarkable or somethig extra, but usually he do not know what he want.
- When somebody comments him then he is very sensitive and untouchable, he is also reacts very inplusively but often he reacts aggressively.
When the parents want to break down the resistance of the adolescent by shouting or fight, it will be very bad thing what they will do. When the parents use the shout and fight it leads the adolescent to the wryness, to negative actions, to telling lies, to moral hatred or to abashedness, also it leads to the lack of iniciative and it origins the complex of minus-valuables.
- The adolescents are changed also from the sensual site. They grows up very quickly, their secondarily sexual symbols develop, the muscles increase and girls have more fat.
- The adolescents have the strong will. They are more tired from sensual and psychic things. They also quickly change their temper and they underlie the new experiences and effects.
- The adolescent in puberty changes the relation to the other sexes. The boys and girls yearn for relative converge, which is not easy, because the boys have fear from their own imperfection, ineffectualness and also they fear from the mockery. That is why the group of boys idolize only one girl or the group of girls idolize the famous sportmen, songer or showmen. Later the individual relations get on. In this individual relations the adolescent idealizes, the adolescent thinks that his girl or her boy is ideal.
- The young people think that the appearance of the other people is everything. This is the fact that their self-assurance remains. The parents already needn‘t to warn them in the dressing.
- The girls watch themselves near the mirror, they study their expression of their face. They valuate their figure and gracefulness of their motions and they exercise themselves in the effective smile.
- The boys relatively gladly watch themselves in mirror.
- Friendship in this time in the period of puberty is expressed by strong emotional relation. The true-heartedness is very important in this age. The adolescent want to aim to retain the friendship. He is able to disturb commands of his parents. That is why is very important with whom has this adolescent relationship.